<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970779546754717750.comments</id><updated>2009-04-07T17:49:12.281+01:00</updated><title type='text'>the middle of nowhere</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.heathersblog.co.uk/feeds/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.heathersblog.co.uk/'/><link rel='next' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/comments/default?start-index=26&amp;max-results=25'/><author><name>Heather Bestel</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04212810406659181150</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>27</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970779546754717750.post-1754608869530490794</id><published>2009-04-07T08:49:00.000+01:00</published><updated>2009-04-07T08:49:00.000+01:00</updated><title type='text'>Makes you think - thank you.I have tagged you on m...</title><content type='html'>Makes you think - thank you.&lt;BR/&gt;I have tagged you on my blog.&lt;BR/&gt;Have a lovely Easter.&lt;BR/&gt;Janex</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/3041110671801216792/comments/default/1754608869530490794'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/3041110671801216792/comments/default/1754608869530490794'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.heathersblog.co.uk/2009/03/stress-tip-or-week-be-kind.html?showComment=1239090540000#c1754608869530490794' title=''/><author><name>Jane</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01351497943306272385</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.heathersblog.co.uk/2009/03/stress-tip-or-week-be-kind.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970779546754717750.post-3041110671801216792' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/posts/default/3041110671801216792' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970779546754717750.post-938228367840915584</id><published>2009-04-04T11:03:00.000+01:00</published><updated>2009-04-04T11:03:00.000+01:00</updated><title type='text'>This is such a lovely photo of you both!  You are ...</title><content type='html'>This is such a lovely photo of you both!  You are precious to us.  Happy Easter.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/4524550466183852376/comments/default/938228367840915584'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/4524550466183852376/comments/default/938228367840915584'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.heathersblog.co.uk/2009/03/stress-tip-of-week-spend-time-with.html?showComment=1238839380000#c938228367840915584' title=''/><author><name>Renita Boyle</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/15556712309569708128</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.heathersblog.co.uk/2009/03/stress-tip-of-week-spend-time-with.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970779546754717750.post-4524550466183852376' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/posts/default/4524550466183852376' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970779546754717750.post-1053217775097041199</id><published>2009-03-24T16:03:00.000Z</published><updated>2009-03-24T16:03:00.000Z</updated><title type='text'>I have trouble keeping that voice quiet - thanks f...</title><content type='html'>I have trouble keeping that voice quiet - thanks for the reminder:)</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/1672321774572355857/comments/default/1053217775097041199'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/1672321774572355857/comments/default/1053217775097041199'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.heathersblog.co.uk/2009/03/stress-tip-of-week-get-rid-of-little.html?showComment=1237910580000#c1053217775097041199' title=''/><author><name>Jane</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01351497943306272385</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.heathersblog.co.uk/2009/03/stress-tip-of-week-get-rid-of-little.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970779546754717750.post-1672321774572355857' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/posts/default/1672321774572355857' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970779546754717750.post-2442116409449134920</id><published>2009-03-12T14:47:00.000Z</published><updated>2009-03-12T14:47:00.000Z</updated><title type='text'>What a wonderful idea. I've been thinking of getti...</title><content type='html'>What a wonderful idea. I've been thinking of getting some earplugs for sleeping, but they'd be even better to use when writing...</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/7589238394158245166/comments/default/2442116409449134920'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/7589238394158245166/comments/default/2442116409449134920'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.heathersblog.co.uk/2009/03/pure-silence.html?showComment=1236869220000#c2442116409449134920' title=''/><author><name>Alex Fayle | Someday Syndrome</name><uri>http://www.somedaysyndrome.com</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.heathersblog.co.uk/2009/03/pure-silence.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970779546754717750.post-7589238394158245166' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/posts/default/7589238394158245166' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970779546754717750.post-7483635976143752421</id><published>2009-03-11T17:46:00.000Z</published><updated>2009-03-11T17:46:00.000Z</updated><title type='text'>Hello! I am an ex-pat living in the US! I am an et...</title><content type='html'>Hello! I am an ex-pat living in the US! I am an eternal optimist and really liked stumbling on this blog. I will be back. Please follow me if you like my blog. Bye Clare</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/639779700464326570/comments/default/7483635976143752421'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/639779700464326570/comments/default/7483635976143752421'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.heathersblog.co.uk/2009/03/blog-post.html?showComment=1236793560000#c7483635976143752421' title=''/><author><name>Clare</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03082191482225006180</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.heathersblog.co.uk/2009/03/blog-post.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970779546754717750.post-639779700464326570' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/posts/default/639779700464326570' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970779546754717750.post-4913701792687711835</id><published>2009-03-09T23:15:00.000Z</published><updated>2009-03-09T23:15:00.000Z</updated><title type='text'>I have found that what you put out spiritually ten...</title><content type='html'>I have found that what you put out spiritually tends to get reflected back to you.  But it's so easy to get caught up yet again in complaints and fear.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Thanks for the reminder again that I need to practice putting out more positive and much less negative!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/639779700464326570/comments/default/4913701792687711835'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/639779700464326570/comments/default/4913701792687711835'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.heathersblog.co.uk/2009/03/blog-post.html?showComment=1236640500000#c4913701792687711835' title=''/><author><name>Northmoon</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.heathersblog.co.uk/2009/03/blog-post.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970779546754717750.post-639779700464326570' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/posts/default/639779700464326570' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970779546754717750.post-1817015448625632677</id><published>2009-03-09T05:25:00.000Z</published><updated>2009-03-09T05:25:00.000Z</updated><title type='text'>Having just come back from a work place who take a...</title><content type='html'>Having just come back from a work place who take any opportunity to bad mouth the boss (and I guess which workplace doesn't?) I am proud for having kept my opinions to myself. It was quite difficult, but I feel the better person for not being dragged into it. Thank you for this post.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Mervat.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/639779700464326570/comments/default/1817015448625632677'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/639779700464326570/comments/default/1817015448625632677'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.heathersblog.co.uk/2009/03/blog-post.html?showComment=1236576300000#c1817015448625632677' title=''/><author><name>Mervat</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14482411783035224286</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.heathersblog.co.uk/2009/03/blog-post.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970779546754717750.post-639779700464326570' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/posts/default/639779700464326570' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970779546754717750.post-5860405743792499011</id><published>2009-03-05T14:10:00.000Z</published><updated>2009-03-05T14:10:00.000Z</updated><title type='text'>Dear Heather,I saw the nice mention of my blog, Th...</title><content type='html'>Dear Heather,&lt;BR/&gt;I saw the nice mention of my blog, The Happiness Project, here. I so much appreciate those kind words and you shining a spotlight on my blog! Thanks and best wishes, Gretchen Rubin</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/639779700464326570/comments/default/5860405743792499011'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/639779700464326570/comments/default/5860405743792499011'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.heathersblog.co.uk/2009/03/blog-post.html?showComment=1236262200000#c5860405743792499011' title=''/><author><name>Gretchen Rubin</name><uri>http://www.happiness-project.com</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.heathersblog.co.uk/2009/03/blog-post.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970779546754717750.post-639779700464326570' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/posts/default/639779700464326570' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970779546754717750.post-6476395970283430191</id><published>2009-03-03T08:46:16.568Z</published><updated>2009-03-03T08:46:16.568Z</updated><title type='text'>Oh dear - is she practising for being a teenager ;...</title><content type='html'>Oh dear - is she practising for being a teenager ;-) or are you being an unreasonable mother;-) or are you both very similar.  I've got it all to come.  We have our moments and I just make sure we keep the channels of communication open even if it means being shouted at (me, that is - that gets shouted at lol).&lt;BR/&gt;Big hugs&lt;BR/&gt;Heather x</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/639779700464326570/comments/default/6476395970283430191'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/639779700464326570/comments/default/6476395970283430191'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.heathersblog.co.uk/2009/03/blog-post.html?showComment=1236069976568#c6476395970283430191' title=''/><author><name>Heather Bestel</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04212810406659181150</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='17094325405252709290'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.heathersblog.co.uk/2009/03/blog-post.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970779546754717750.post-639779700464326570' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/posts/default/639779700464326570' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970779546754717750.post-8977048140168540377</id><published>2009-03-03T08:21:00.000Z</published><updated>2009-03-03T08:21:00.000Z</updated><title type='text'>After having another row with my daughter this mor...</title><content type='html'>After having another row with my daughter this morning I think I need to join you :)</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/639779700464326570/comments/default/8977048140168540377'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/639779700464326570/comments/default/8977048140168540377'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.heathersblog.co.uk/2009/03/blog-post.html?showComment=1236068460000#c8977048140168540377' title=''/><author><name>Jane</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01351497943306272385</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.heathersblog.co.uk/2009/03/blog-post.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970779546754717750.post-639779700464326570' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/posts/default/639779700464326570' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970779546754717750.post-7472674520380867540</id><published>2009-02-24T20:50:04.901Z</published><updated>2009-02-24T20:50:04.901Z</updated><title type='text'>Yay!  That's great M.  Make sure you put that memo...</title><content type='html'>Yay!  That's great M.  &lt;BR/&gt;Make sure you put that memory somewhere safe - so you can use it again in the future.&lt;BR/&gt;Hx</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/8712693526934625781/comments/default/7472674520380867540'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/8712693526934625781/comments/default/7472674520380867540'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.heathersblog.co.uk/2009/02/stress-tip-of-week-give-yourself-treat.html?showComment=1235508604901#c7472674520380867540' title=''/><author><name>Heather Bestel</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04212810406659181150</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='17094325405252709290'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.heathersblog.co.uk/2009/02/stress-tip-of-week-give-yourself-treat.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970779546754717750.post-8712693526934625781' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/posts/default/8712693526934625781' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970779546754717750.post-6441757465027116661</id><published>2009-02-24T20:21:00.000Z</published><updated>2009-02-24T20:21:00.000Z</updated><title type='text'>Hi Heather,Very true.  Feeling stressed at work to...</title><content type='html'>Hi Heather,&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Very true.  &lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Feeling stressed at work today, I imagined myself sitting in our favourite cafe in Edinburgh with a glass of hot milk...&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;The stress vanished.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;M</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/8712693526934625781/comments/default/6441757465027116661'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/8712693526934625781/comments/default/6441757465027116661'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.heathersblog.co.uk/2009/02/stress-tip-of-week-give-yourself-treat.html?showComment=1235506860000#c6441757465027116661' title=''/><author><name>M</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14758914366419054434</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.heathersblog.co.uk/2009/02/stress-tip-of-week-give-yourself-treat.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970779546754717750.post-8712693526934625781' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/posts/default/8712693526934625781' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970779546754717750.post-7963703150246923654</id><published>2009-02-24T13:41:44.674Z</published><updated>2009-02-24T13:41:44.674Z</updated><title type='text'>Now that is a treat M.  Not only did it make you f...</title><content type='html'>Now that is a treat M.  Not only did it make you feel like a new woman, but you can re-live the experience whenever you need a little lift - (see last week's Stress Tip):)Hx</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/8712693526934625781/comments/default/7963703150246923654'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/8712693526934625781/comments/default/7963703150246923654'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.heathersblog.co.uk/2009/02/stress-tip-of-week-give-yourself-treat.html?showComment=1235482904674#c7963703150246923654' title=''/><author><name>Heather Bestel</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04212810406659181150</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='17094325405252709290'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.heathersblog.co.uk/2009/02/stress-tip-of-week-give-yourself-treat.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970779546754717750.post-8712693526934625781' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/posts/default/8712693526934625781' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970779546754717750.post-4642971833460598036</id><published>2009-02-23T20:46:00.000Z</published><updated>2009-02-23T20:46:00.000Z</updated><title type='text'>Absolutely right.I've just come back from a fantas...</title><content type='html'>Absolutely right.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;I've just come back from a fantastic treat - a weekend trip to Edinburgh with my husband.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;I feel a new woman.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Give yourself a break - you deserve it!&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;M</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/8712693526934625781/comments/default/4642971833460598036'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/8712693526934625781/comments/default/4642971833460598036'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.heathersblog.co.uk/2009/02/stress-tip-of-week-give-yourself-treat.html?showComment=1235421960000#c4642971833460598036' title=''/><author><name>M</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14758914366419054434</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.heathersblog.co.uk/2009/02/stress-tip-of-week-give-yourself-treat.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970779546754717750.post-8712693526934625781' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/posts/default/8712693526934625781' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970779546754717750.post-8215248323374944754</id><published>2009-02-23T17:08:31.941Z</published><updated>2009-02-23T17:08:31.941Z</updated><title type='text'>Alex - oooh, I like the idea of outer space.  One ...</title><content type='html'>Alex - oooh, I like the idea of outer space.  One of my visualisations for children involves floating around in space and I always find it really relaxing.  Maybe I should do some for adults too!&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Gosh Jane - it WAS years ago wasn't it!  I can't believe how the time has flown.  I'm so glad you are still using the tools I showed you, they really are for life.  Sometimes, we can go for years not needing them - but they are always there, in case of emergencies.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/4609517932584381056/comments/default/8215248323374944754'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/4609517932584381056/comments/default/8215248323374944754'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.heathersblog.co.uk/2009/02/stress-tip-of-week-take-virtual-holiday.html?showComment=1235408911941#c8215248323374944754' title=''/><author><name>Heather Bestel</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04212810406659181150</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='17094325405252709290'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.heathersblog.co.uk/2009/02/stress-tip-of-week-take-virtual-holiday.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970779546754717750.post-4609517932584381056' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/posts/default/4609517932584381056' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970779546754717750.post-3644734586245509819</id><published>2009-02-23T06:23:00.000Z</published><updated>2009-02-23T06:23:00.000Z</updated><title type='text'>Heather told me about these several years ago and ...</title><content type='html'>Heather told me about these several years ago and it's true it really works.&lt;BR/&gt;I've just come back from Sardinia (and have never left my desk!)</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/4609517932584381056/comments/default/3644734586245509819'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/4609517932584381056/comments/default/3644734586245509819'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.heathersblog.co.uk/2009/02/stress-tip-of-week-take-virtual-holiday.html?showComment=1235370180000#c3644734586245509819' title=''/><author><name>Jane</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01351497943306272385</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.heathersblog.co.uk/2009/02/stress-tip-of-week-take-virtual-holiday.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970779546754717750.post-4609517932584381056' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/posts/default/4609517932584381056' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970779546754717750.post-8232875283845977091</id><published>2009-02-16T20:36:00.000Z</published><updated>2009-02-16T20:36:00.000Z</updated><title type='text'>My virtual holidays involve TV or a good book. As ...</title><content type='html'>My virtual holidays involve TV or a good book. As I don't have space to buy more books and the library doesn't have English language titles, I take little voyages into the world of TV shows. Mindless and wonderfully relaxing (or cathartic in the case of Battlestar Galactica).</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/4609517932584381056/comments/default/8232875283845977091'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/4609517932584381056/comments/default/8232875283845977091'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.heathersblog.co.uk/2009/02/stress-tip-of-week-take-virtual-holiday.html?showComment=1234816560000#c8232875283845977091' title=''/><author><name>Alex Fayle | Someday Syndrome</name><uri>http://www.somedaysyndrome.com</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.heathersblog.co.uk/2009/02/stress-tip-of-week-take-virtual-holiday.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970779546754717750.post-4609517932584381056' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/posts/default/4609517932584381056' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970779546754717750.post-1551917187254343987</id><published>2009-02-16T08:15:00.000Z</published><updated>2009-02-16T08:15:00.000Z</updated><title type='text'>Great post, as always!</title><content type='html'>Great post, as always!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/7269965186993534989/comments/default/1551917187254343987'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/7269965186993534989/comments/default/1551917187254343987'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.heathersblog.co.uk/2009/02/be-my-valentine.html?showComment=1234772100000#c1551917187254343987' title=''/><author><name>Jane</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01351497943306272385</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.heathersblog.co.uk/2009/02/be-my-valentine.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970779546754717750.post-7269965186993534989' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/posts/default/7269965186993534989' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970779546754717750.post-3342550434788362272</id><published>2009-02-15T18:49:09.073Z</published><updated>2009-02-15T18:49:09.073Z</updated><title type='text'>Alex, welcome and thank you for your comment.Andy,...</title><content type='html'>Alex, welcome and thank you for your comment.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Andy, very wise words, thank you.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Heather</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/5229780070283445775/comments/default/3342550434788362272'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/5229780070283445775/comments/default/3342550434788362272'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.heathersblog.co.uk/2009/02/stress-tip-of-week-double-check.html?showComment=1234723749073#c3342550434788362272' title=''/><author><name>Heather Bestel</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04212810406659181150</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='17094325405252709290'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.heathersblog.co.uk/2009/02/stress-tip-of-week-double-check.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970779546754717750.post-5229780070283445775' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/posts/default/5229780070283445775' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970779546754717750.post-3127730782582829883</id><published>2009-02-15T18:47:19.963Z</published><updated>2009-02-15T18:47:19.963Z</updated><title type='text'>Glad to be of service AndyHx</title><content type='html'>Glad to be of service Andy&lt;BR/&gt;Hx</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/7269965186993534989/comments/default/3127730782582829883'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/7269965186993534989/comments/default/3127730782582829883'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.heathersblog.co.uk/2009/02/be-my-valentine.html?showComment=1234723639963#c3127730782582829883' title=''/><author><name>Heather Bestel</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04212810406659181150</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='17094325405252709290'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.heathersblog.co.uk/2009/02/be-my-valentine.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970779546754717750.post-7269965186993534989' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/posts/default/7269965186993534989' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970779546754717750.post-7185349130987329824</id><published>2009-02-14T15:30:00.000Z</published><updated>2009-02-14T15:30:00.000Z</updated><title type='text'>cheers, am smiling now.</title><content type='html'>cheers, am smiling now.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/7269965186993534989/comments/default/7185349130987329824'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/7269965186993534989/comments/default/7185349130987329824'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.heathersblog.co.uk/2009/02/be-my-valentine.html?showComment=1234625400000#c7185349130987329824' title=''/><author><name>Andy from Workshopshed</name><uri>http://www.workshopshed.com</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.heathersblog.co.uk/2009/02/be-my-valentine.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970779546754717750.post-7269965186993534989' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/posts/default/7269965186993534989' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970779546754717750.post-850868983611372896</id><published>2009-02-14T13:47:42.666Z</published><updated>2009-02-14T13:47:42.666Z</updated><title type='text'>Antonella,I hope it helps for you to know there ar...</title><content type='html'>Antonella,&lt;BR/&gt;I hope it helps for you to know there are others out there in a similar position.&lt;BR/&gt;And there are others out there ready and willing to listen if you need to offload.&lt;BR/&gt;Much love&lt;BR/&gt;Heather x</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/1323633618683584295/comments/default/850868983611372896'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/1323633618683584295/comments/default/850868983611372896'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.heathersblog.co.uk/2009/02/stress-tip-of-week-remember-youre-not.html?showComment=1234619262666#c850868983611372896' title=''/><author><name>Heather Bestel</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04212810406659181150</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='17094325405252709290'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.heathersblog.co.uk/2009/02/stress-tip-of-week-remember-youre-not.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970779546754717750.post-1323633618683584295' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/posts/default/1323633618683584295' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970779546754717750.post-666062269709364591</id><published>2009-02-14T13:45:16.890Z</published><updated>2009-02-14T13:45:16.890Z</updated><title type='text'>Go for it Jane. You'll feel great afterwards.Hx</title><content type='html'>Go for it Jane. You'll feel great afterwards.&lt;BR/&gt;Hx</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/2406447231777566090/comments/default/666062269709364591'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/2406447231777566090/comments/default/666062269709364591'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.heathersblog.co.uk/2009/02/emotional-attachment.html?showComment=1234619116890#c666062269709364591' title=''/><author><name>Heather Bestel</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04212810406659181150</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='17094325405252709290'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.heathersblog.co.uk/2009/02/emotional-attachment.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970779546754717750.post-2406447231777566090' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/posts/default/2406447231777566090' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970779546754717750.post-1360500982865454472</id><published>2009-02-14T13:33:40.564Z</published><updated>2009-02-14T13:33:40.564Z</updated><title type='text'>Trish - you are most welcome, have a great weekend...</title><content type='html'>Trish - you are most welcome, have a great weekend!&lt;BR/&gt;Love &amp;amp; best wishes&lt;BR/&gt;Heather</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/7269965186993534989/comments/default/1360500982865454472'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/7269965186993534989/comments/default/1360500982865454472'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.heathersblog.co.uk/2009/02/be-my-valentine.html?showComment=1234618420564#c1360500982865454472' title=''/><author><name>Heather Bestel</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04212810406659181150</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='17094325405252709290'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.heathersblog.co.uk/2009/02/be-my-valentine.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970779546754717750.post-7269965186993534989' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/posts/default/7269965186993534989' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970779546754717750.post-6452473407067385482</id><published>2009-02-14T12:46:00.000Z</published><updated>2009-02-14T12:46:00.000Z</updated><title type='text'>Thank you your thoughts are just what I needed to ...</title><content type='html'>Thank you your thoughts are just what I needed to hear today... Trish xx</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/7269965186993534989/comments/default/6452473407067385482'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/7269965186993534989/comments/default/6452473407067385482'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.heathersblog.co.uk/2009/02/be-my-valentine.html?showComment=1234615560000#c6452473407067385482' title=''/><author><name>Patricia</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05220524613892706575</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.heathersblog.co.uk/2009/02/be-my-valentine.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970779546754717750.post-7269965186993534989' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3970779546754717750/posts/default/7269965186993534989' type='text/html'/></entry></feed>